Last weekend, the Episcopal Church published its annual compilation of Parochial Report statistics. I used to pour over these numbers with great interest, but time doesn’t allow for that any more. Thankfully God still makes seminarians like Ben Crosby from Berkeley Divinity School at Yale who has both time and energy to dig into such things. As expected, the decline continues. The median Average Sunday Attendance (ASA) in an Episcopal congregation is 53 people, which is lower than the median ASA of our 8 am service. There are now more congregations with an ASA under 10 than there are parishes with an ASA over 300. My friend Tom Ferguson also noted that given that the Episcopal Church is 87% Anglo in a nation that is only 62% white and that our average age is 57, compared to an average age of about 37 in the US, the Episcopal Church is becoming less and less able to make the necessary changes to turn the tide around. As you might imagine, there is not a little bit of hand-wringing and anxiety among leaders in the Episcopal Church over numbers like this. We might find some solace in the reality that almost every Christian denomination from the Southern Baptists to the Roman Catholics is experiencing statistically significant decline, but if our mission is, as our Prayer Book says, “to restore all people to unity with God and each other in Christ,” then we are clearly failing.
Our Gospel lesson this morning begins by telling us that large crowds of people were travelling with Jesus. Given the current rate of decline in the Episcopal Church, it would make sense to look to Jesus to see what he can teach us about church growth. “Whoever does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, even life itself, cannot be my disciple.” OK, well, let’s look some more. “Whoever does not carry the cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.” Surely, there’s something we can use. “None of you can become my disciple if you do not give up all your possessions.” Huh. Well. I’m not quite sure Jesus is the church growth guru for us. It’s no wonder that by the time he arrives at the cross no one but his mom, his closest friend, and a few faithful women were left hanging around.
How do we reconcile these two conflicting forces? If we learn from Jesus that it is about depth of commitment and not necessarily bigger numbers, but are also pretty certain that our mission calls us to reach out to all people, what are we supposed to do? Where is the sweet spot between the church with a rock band and fog machine that is designed to appeal to everyone and the old Celtic tradition of wading neck deep into the freezing cold waters of the North Sea and reciting all 150 Psalms from memory? I think the key to unlocking this puzzle comes in the example Jesus gives about building a tower. “Which of you, intending to build a tower, does not first sit down and estimate the cost, to see whether there is enough to complete it? Otherwise, when the foundation has been laid and there isn’t enough to finish, all who see it will begin to ridicule the builder.”
Following Jesus comes at a cost. The Church is not called to be everything for everyone. We are not here to make following Jesus easy, comfortable, or entertaining, but rather to offer an honest assessment of what life is like in the Kingdom of God. As a Church, we are called to love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength. As disciples of Jesus, we are called to make sacrifices of our time to attend worship; to offer our gifts and talents to the ongoing mission and ministry of God in the world; and to give of our financial resources for the building up of the Kingdom of God. As a congregation of disciples, the Episcopal arm of the Body of Christ in Bowling Green, we are called to love our neighbors and our enemies; to visit the sick and the imprisoned, to feed the hungry, to clothe the naked, and to welcome the stranger. None of this is easy. All of it is risky. Being the Church in the example of Jesus Christ comes at a real cost to us both personally and corporately.
Jesus wants us to know the costs before we start the journey so that we might not lose heart when the going gets tough. All those who are willing to walk this path, the way of the cross, are invited to come along. Thankfully, we know that this is not a journey we walk alone. With the Holy Spirit as our guide, we walk with a community of disciples, arm-in-arm with the communion of saints who have gone before, eking ever closer to the Kingdom on earth as it is in heaven. The cost may be high, the model may not be a popular one, but the rewards for us and for the world God created are well worth it. May God bless us with the resources and the stamina to walk with Jesus on the path to eternal life. Amen.
 https://twitter.com/benjamindcrosby/status/1168317805894279173 accessed 9/5/2019.
 http://crustyoldean.blogspot.com/2019/09/the-collapse-is-here.html accessed 9/5/2019.
 BCP, p. 855.